I received a phone call from Dr. B this afternoon. Yes, he said 4-6 weeks for results & we only did the bloodwork 3 weeks ago. What’s this, a doctor that calls you himself & does it sooner than the time frame given? Be still my heart!
For the 1st time in almost 6 years of TTC I can finally utter these words: we have answers.
Starting off, my husband & I have some haplotype issues. Specifically, the concerning one is we have a matching HLA type (AA haplotype). Fascinating yet bizarre. Genetically, we are quite different (he is Tamil, I am a mix of Portuguese, Hawaiian & Irish) so one would like Darwin’s theory of genetic diversity leading to fitness. Guess not.
The good news here though is our chromosomes are normal which I was slightly concerned about since Vid’s parents are second cousins. Gotta love (or not, in reality; ha!) arranged marriage.
I also have a high level of anti-nuclear antibodies & an 8.1 extended haplotype as well as TH2 dominance which point to my body attacking foreign bodies, a.k.a. embryos. Also, based on the T2 he is recommending a repeat lap to check for endo as in his experience there is a huge correlation. Given my testing positive for so many inflammatory immune things, he said he’d be remiss not to order it. The dude he recommends is on Long Island so I will have to check with my insurance & pray it’ll just be a matter of an out of network co-pay.
My AMH is on the low end of normal @ .79. According to all the charts I’ve seen on Dr. Google, that is about average for a 40 year old woman. I will be 35 in 2 months. It’s not low enough to be considered DOR but basically the sooner we get pregnant the better (no shit!) because when I am actually 40, we’d most certainly have to venture into donor eggs. I have no interest (or funds) to do that.
The shocker: I have fucking celiac disease. My husband, you know, the one who shits like a buffalo & has the gas to match whenever he eats anything with gluten? Nope. Totally odd. He grew up in South India where it’s a rice-based diet & never has GI issues when he visits home & eats the traditional diet. I’ve been begging him for years to get tested & he never has. But now we know. And I, the queen of carbs who has a gut of steel (seriously, I’ve eaten in some very shady road side stands in developing countries with no issue) has fucking celiac. This was me today upon hearing the news:
I am so sad it’s pathetic. I don’t want to live in a world without bagels or pizza. Yes I know there are gluten free options out there but they’ve hella pricey & often taste like ass. Alas, having a kid is more important @ this point than having a bowl of pasta. And once I give birth, I am eating ALL THE CARBS in celebration!